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Peacekeeper AI

AI that protects your peace — not just your inbox.

Peacekeeper AI is the intelligence woven through every Coparency message. It helps you compose with intention, shields you from hostility, and — with Insights — turns weeks of messy communication into patterns you can actually see.

Free while we're in early access — no credit card needed.

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Compose

Help writing better messages — before they're sent.

Tone analysis as you type, coaching in four evidence-based styles, and rewrites that keep your voice while removing what you'd regret. Compose also knows what's been tense lately — when a draft touches a sensitive topic, it reads with extra care.

  • Real-time tone and escalation detection as you type
  • Coaching in BIFF, Grey Rock, Strategic, and On-topic styles
  • One-tap rewrites grounded in your own words
  • Topic-aware: extra care when a draft touches a recently tense subject
  • Tag a message "needs response" — with an optional deadline — and gentle reminders do the chasing
Communication Coaching dialog showing tone analysis and a suggested rewrite
Protect

Shield your peace from hostility.

Every incoming message is screened for hostility and urgency before it reaches you. Calm Delivery puts notifications on your schedule — and it learns your conversation's heated hours, quietly steering what can wait past them. Anything urgent still comes through right away.

  • Hostility screening on every incoming message
  • Calm Delivery: batched, scheduled notifications on your terms
  • Learns recurring heated hours and routes non-urgent pings around them
  • Away mode: step back for a weekend — reminders pause, expectations stay fair
  • Urgent messages always break through immediately
An incoming message intercepted by Peacekeeper — flagged content with the option to screen it or view anyway
Screening examples

What was written vs. what arrives.

Hostile incoming messages are rewritten into their neutral, useful core before they reach you. The original is always preserved — time-stamped, unedited, and exportable if you ever need it.

Original — saved to the record

You never remember to pack their lunches. The kids were starving at school. I need you to actually pay attention for once.

Screened — what arrives

The kids didn't have lunches packed today. Please remember to include lunches when they're with you.

The blame and the "never" are gone. The fact and the request survive.

Original — saved to the record

I can't believe you forgot AGAIN. Anyway, can you pick up Emma at 3pm tomorrow from soccer?

Screened — what arrives

Can you pick up Emma at 3pm tomorrow from soccer?

The jab disappears; the question still gets asked — and answered.

All examples come from the scenario library we use to build and test Peacekeeper — never from real families' messages.

InsightsNow live

See the pattern. Keep your footing.

Compose and Protect work message by message. Insights reads across the weeks — and turns them into perspective you can actually use. Now live for parents and professionals.

For you

A private mirror for your side of things.

Insights notices what you're doing well before anything else — that's a design rule, not a nicety. It's grounded in the communication research Peacekeeper is built on, and it's completely private: nothing here is ever shown to your co-parent.

  • Weekly reflections that lead with what went well
  • Moments: hard stretches get named while they're happening — and closed out when they resolve
  • Themes: the topics that keep coming back, made visible
  • See how often Compose helped shape what you actually sent
Peacekeeper Insights weekly reflection for a parent — leading with what went well, with moments and themes below
For professionals

The long view, for the people families trust.

Attorneys, mediators, coordinators, and counselors get a purpose-built read on how a family is communicating — in professional language that describes communication, never people.

  • Recent climate for every family, at a glance on the dashboard
  • Monthly communication summaries — observations, never findings
  • Response patterns: what's still waiting on a reply, and for how long
  • Moments and themes that catch you up on the months between check-ins
Peacekeeper Insights professional view — monthly communication summaries, moments, and themes for a family
Designed with restraint

What Insights won't do.

AI that reads family communication demands care. These aren't missing features — they're promises.

No scores. No streaks.

Nothing here grades you, ranks you against your co-parent, or turns a hard week into a red badge. Observations, never verdicts.

Nothing crosses the fence.

Your reflections, your tone, your patterns — never shown to your co-parent. Each parent sees their own side only.

Never in the record.

AI observations stay out of exported message records. What you send is what appears — clean, factual, and yours.

Read the full story — how we designed Insights, and the research behind it

Coaching styles

Four voices that keep you steady.

Choose the style that fits the moment. Coparency coaches you through each one with real-time rewrite suggestions — not generic templates.

BIFF

Brief. Informative. Friendly. Firm.

A classic high-conflict communication framework. Coparency suggests rewrites that stay focused, civil, and free of emotional reactivity.

Grey Rock

Minimize emotional surface area.

Respond in a way that gives nothing to push against — neutral, factual, and unprovokable — while still answering what matters.

Strategic

Reads well in a courtroom.

Coaches language that documents reality clearly, avoids inflammatory framing, and holds up if this message is ever read aloud by a judge.

On-topic

Kids at the center.

Keeps the conversation focused on the children — drifting away from rehashing the past or personal disputes, back toward logistics and care.

I needed a system that actively encouraged the high road — allowing me to be present for my kids, not just prepared for the next battle.

Matt, founder of Coparency

Questions

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Compose, Protect, and Insights — all live today. Start free and feel the difference in your next message.

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