Every message you send on Coparency is coached, screened, and organized. The result: a record you'd be proud to read aloud — in your living room, your lawyer's office, or a courtroom.
Coparency reads what you're drafting and gently flags language that might escalate — not to judge you, but to give you one more chance to choose calm. You decide what to change; we just make it easy to see.
Choose from four evidence-based communication styles — BIFF, Grey Rock, Strategic, and On-topic. Coparency offers rewrites in the style you pick, preserving your voice and intent.
Every message coming in is analyzed for hostility, urgency, and topic — so you can walk into the thread prepared. Nothing is hidden from you; Peacekeeper just hands you context before the emotional weight lands.
Receive messages in batches — hourly, twice a day, or a weekly digest — so your phone stops pulling you out of your life. Set quiet hours, choose which updates reach you at all, and let urgent messages still come through right away.
Every message is logged with read receipts and timestamps, and can’t be edited or altered once sent — then exported for legal or professional review. You own your communication history.
Hostile incoming messages are rewritten into their neutral, useful core before they reach you. The original is always preserved — time-stamped, unedited, and exportable if you ever need it.
You never remember to pack their lunches. The kids were starving at school. I need you to actually pay attention for once.
The kids didn't have lunches packed today. Please remember to include lunches when they're with you.
The blame and the "never" are gone. The fact and the request survive.
I can't believe you forgot AGAIN. Anyway, can you pick up Emma at 3pm tomorrow from soccer?
Can you pick up Emma at 3pm tomorrow from soccer?
The jab disappears; the question still gets asked — and answered.
All examples come from the scenario library we use to build and test Peacekeeper — never from real families' messages.
Choose the style that fits the moment. Coparency coaches you through each one with real-time rewrite suggestions — not generic templates.
A classic high-conflict communication framework. Coparency suggests rewrites that stay focused, civil, and free of emotional reactivity.
Respond in a way that gives nothing to push against — neutral, factual, and unprovokable — while still answering what matters.
Coaches language that documents reality clearly, avoids inflammatory framing, and holds up if this message is ever read aloud by a judge.
Keeps the conversation focused on the children — drifting away from rehashing the past or personal disputes, back toward logistics and care.
Coaching, screening, and Calm Delivery — included from your first message.
