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Coparency
Free while in early access

The co-parenting app built for high-conflict divorce.

Coparency coaches every message before you send it, screens hostile ones on arrival, and keeps your custody calendar and shared expenses in one calm place. Built by co-parents who lived it.

Free while we're in early access — no credit card needed.

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Coparency messaging on iPhone, with Peacekeeper AI tone feedback on a draft
Messaging

Say it right the first time.

Peacekeeper AI reads your draft as you type and suggests calmer, court-appropriate rewrites — so the message that sends is the one your kids need you to send.

  • Tone analysis and rewrite coaching in four styles — BIFF, Grey Rock, Strategic, and On-topic
  • Incoming hostility screening — urgency, tone, and topic labeled before you open it
  • Calm Delivery batches non-urgent notifications; true emergencies still cut through
Peacekeeper AI coaching a message draft in Coparency, suggesting a calmer rewrite
Custody calendar

One schedule, zero ambiguity.

Parenting time, holidays, summer, school events, and swap requests live on one shared calendar — no more competing versions of the same week.

  • Any pattern a court order can describe — week-on-week-off, 2-2-5-5, custom rotations
  • Swap requests with a clear accept/decline record
  • Subscribe from Google or Apple Calendar so the schedule follows you
Coparency shared custody calendar showing parenting time and events
Expenses

Settle up without the fight.

Shared costs follow the rules you set — logged once, split automatically, backed by receipts.

  • Rule-based splits by category, so the math is never the argument
  • Receipts attached to every expense
  • A running ledger you can export for your attorney or mediator
Coparency expense tracking with rule-based splits and receipts
How it works

Up and running in an afternoon.

  1. Create your free account

    Sign up on the web, iPhone, or Android in about two minutes. No credit card, no trial countdown — Coparency is free while in early access.

  2. Set up your family

    Add your kids, custody schedule, and expense rules, then invite your co-parent. Or don't — one-sided setup gives you the full app while they keep using plain email.

  3. Communicate with a peacekeeper at your side

    Peacekeeper AI coaches your drafts before they send, screens what arrives for hostility, and keeps one tamper-evident record of everything.

Every professional gave me the same advice. The tools to actually follow it didn't exist — so I built them.

Matt, founder of Coparency

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Try the co-parenting app built for calm.

Free while we're in early access — no credit card needed. Get started in minutes, even if your co-parent never joins.

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