Start in minutes, even alone.
Coparency is designed to work whether both parents are on board or only one. You'll have a real system in place — before your next hard conversation.
Five steps to a calmer system.
You'll have a real system in place before your next hard conversation.
Create your account
Sign up on web, iOS, or Android. Add your children, upload your parenting plan (optional), and tell us a bit about the calendar and expense rules already in place.
No credit card required to get started.
Invite your co-parent — or don't
If your co-parent is ready, send an invite. If not, Coparency's one-sided setup lets you mirror existing communication, configure Calm Delivery, and get coached on outgoing messages on your own.
One-sided users can bring the other parent in later with their full history intact.
How one-sided setup worksSet your calendar and rules
Model your parenting schedule, add holidays, and import your school calendar. Set your expense-sharing rules once so every new receipt is applied correctly.
Import from Google Calendar, iCal, or your school district.
Send your first coached message
Write naturally. Peacekeeper AI checks tone as you type and suggests rewrites in the coaching style you've chosen. Send with confidence — and know that anything coming back will be screened for you.
Both urgent and non-urgent incoming messages respect your Calm Delivery schedule.
Bring your team in
Add a lawyer, counselor, coordinator, or mediator with the right level of access. Share summary reports instead of screenshots and keep the whole team aligned.
Professional access is always revocable, time-limited, and fully logged.
One-sided setup
Start on your own. Bring your co-parent in whenever — your history comes with you.
Calm Delivery from day one
Stop reacting to every notification. Let Coparency batch what can wait.
Bring your team
Add professionals when the moment calls for it, not weeks after.
“Most tools organize logistics. Coparency gives you a buffer between the notification and the response — and that buffer is everything.”
Your next message can be different.
Get started free. It takes less than five minutes.